I know how much work and effort it takes to plan a great date.  You’re already nervous about hanging out with this gorgeous specimen of a woman.  You have to look great, smell great, dress well, have great topics to talk about and of course – there’s the actual planning of the DATE.  Planning the first few dates can be overwhelming and may be nerve-wracking to figure out something that she’ll enjoy.  I’m here to help.

All women find a man with a plan very hot, and the effort that he puts into planning a date wins major points with us.  An ideal date will include 3 elements:

1.  Activity/Entertainment

2.  Dining/Food

3.  Slow Down w/ a Beverage

A date shows a woman that you’re a man who knows how to plan, lead and execute.  This is especially awesome when something on the date doesn’t go according to the master plan and you have to troubleshoot or improvise.


Here are some ideas:

  • Farmers Market to pick up food, then cook together
  • Canoe/Rowboat ride
  • Ride the Ducks
  • Comedy Show/Improv Show
  • Putt Putt Golf
  • Museum/Art Gallery
  • Live Music Show (any live music will do)
  • Rent bikes & go discover a trail
  • Roller Skating or Ice Skating
  • Hike someplace cool
  • Cooking Class
  • Scenic Drive to a place w/ a view & picnic
  • Tour a factory (chocolate, etc)
  • Art or Painting Class
  • Glab a latte & walk Green Lake
  • Underground Tour of Seattle
  • Shooting Range
  • Ferry Ride anywhere
  • Wine Tasting
  • Beer Tasting
  • Theatre/Show
  • REI Class on anything fun
  • Rock Climbing
  • Bowling

Please skip the dinner & a movie, and take us somewhere fun!  Somewhere that will bring out our competitive side, or a place you can teach us something new, or we can both learn something together.

Also, on all dates after the First one, the gentleman should pick up the lady at her place and walk her back to her front door at the end of the date.  We absolutely love it when a man does this.  And I know that all men secretly love being romantic, so feel free gentlemen!  The ladies will admire and respect the effort you make, which will only make your dating experience that much more fantastic.  You lead, and the lady will follow.