Category Archives: Dating

Texting Them Shouldn’t Give you Anxiety

Texting them shouldn’t give you anxiety   You think about what to say.  Type it. Delete. Re-write. Send. Then hold your breath while you wait, and wait.   Sometimes you get a reply. Something sweet and thoughtful. And other times - there’s days, weeks w/o a reply.   Not...

Stop avoiding deep conversations on dates

RANDOM ADVICE FROM DATING COACH: My favorite way to learn about a person is through storytelling. I share a personal story and get their opinion on the situation. It makes exploring boundaries a lot easier bc their guard is down and they aren't trying to impress you or think "hmm what would I really do". It's a...

Hot and Cold isn’t Cool

RANDOM TIPS FROM DATING COACH: Inconsistent communication says that you're unreliable, uninterested, unorganized, and unavailable. All of which, to an emotionally healthy woman, are turn-offs. Every woman wants a solid relationship with a stable, mature man who respects her and isn't afraid to show affection, true connection, and commitment. So, Gentlemen (and ladies), if you're inconsistent in your communication...

What NOT to Do for Date Zero

“Date Zero” is your first face-to-face meeting. This happens before the official “first date,” and gives both of you an opportunity to determine your compatibility. Meeting for coffee or a quick happy hour drink are the optimal Date Zero activities—they allow both of you to get to know each other, see if you...